God Sensitive Small Groups
Small Group Network, May 2001
By Joel Comiskey
"Donít teach about worship as part of the cell (small group) order when youíre speaking to our leaders," the pastor told me right before the seminar started. "We donít practice worship in our cells (small groups). Itís too much of a hassle to train the leaders to direct worship, and after all, our small groups are primarily for non-Christians." "Okay," I nodded outwardly, while inwardly wrestling with this new revelation.
What surprised me about the small groups at this church was the normal, typical small group in the church excluded worship.
I understand that a certain number of groups will have more of a seeker-sensitive approach. But to exclude worship from the bread-and-butter small group? I felt like this church had cut out one of the major arteries that flowed directly to the heart of God.
I strongly believe that small group ministry is a powerful tool to reach the lost, but is this our only purpose? Weíre flooded with information about how to be "seeker-sensitive," but have we paid as much attention to God-sensitivity? How does God feel when we pay more attention to the seeker than the Almighty?
The Scriptures help straighten us out.
Jesus says, "Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only"(Matthew 4:10). Worship first; service second. This order is repeated later on in Matthew when Jesus says, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.í Afterwards comes the second command, "Love your neighbor as yourself."(22:37-39).
And then we read about the "M" sisters: Martha and Mary. Martha excelled in serving but failed in worship. Mary cared about only one thing: the person of Jesus Christ. Who got the "A" grade? Jesus tells us: "Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her" (Matthew 10:42).
One more example: In the last book of the Bible, Jesus talks about an incredible church that produced good works like a modern-day factory. Yet after highlighting their impeccable deeds, Jesus rebuked them, "I hold this against you: You have forsaken your first love. Remember the height from which you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first. If you do not repent, I will come to you and remove your lamp stand from its place." (Revelation 2:4-5).
How does all this relate to small group ministry? It tells me the upward, God focus of the small group must be at the center of small group ministry. While techniques to lasso non-Christians are great, theyíre not at the core of small group ministry. God is the core. Letís be encouraged to make our groups God-sensitive.
The Normal Cell Group
The normal cell group, like a good diet, includes certain staple ingredients. I recommend that the following for a basic cell group:
No two small groups are exactly alike but each maintains the ingredients.
Prayer in the Cell
Prayer is part of that upward focus. In my own cell, we begin in prayer. Then we enter worship, which is a form of prayer. Notice how prayer and worship are linked in Revelation 5:8-9:
"Each one had a harp and they were holding golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints. And they sang a new song: You are worthy to take the scroll and to open its seals, because you were slain, and with your blood you purchased men for God from every tribe and language and people and nation."
We then start the lesson time in prayer. During the lesson time, God speaks to us through the Word. Invariably there are prayer needs, so we allow a time for prayer requests. Finally we pray for unsaved loved ones to know Jesus Christ and come to the cell group.
The sensitive leader utilizes the style of prayer that best fits the context of the cell group. When non-Christians are present, for example, an "all-out fiery" prayer meeting is probably not the best. Silent prayer might be in order, or praying in pairs. Cell leaders must remain sensitive to the situation and utilize the type of prayer that best fits with the circumstancesóbut do pray.
Worship in the Cell
Singing and prayer form part of the upward focus in the cell group. Entering Godís presence through song is an important part of the worship time.
You donít have to play guitar or sing like Amy Grant to lead God-honoring worship. Iíve experienced worship times in which the members choked out a joyful noise (with the emphasis on the word noise). God doesnít require a tabernacle choir. He looks at the motivation for singing. Some groups simply prefer to play a tape or CD, while the members follow along.
The worship leader should pick five to six songs before the worship starts. Or the worship leader might invite cell members to select the songs before the worship time and then sing them in sequence. I think itís best to concentrate on God during the entire worship time, rather than stopping and starting to pick the song. I like to intermingle praise and prayer between songs.
Donít limit the Worship Time only to singing songs. At a cell seminar, one participant shared, "Itís important to go beyond singing songs. Our group has experienced Godís presence through reading Psalms together, praying sentence prayers, or even waiting in silence."
Go for It
Make your group God-sensitive, while asking Him to show you how to reach non-Christians. Put Him first in your group, and heíll give you a new dynamic atmosphere that will edify the saints and evangelize the unbelievers